Sexuality
Sexuality is a part of everyday life. Feelings about sexuality may affect:
Some people go through cancer treatment without having their feelings and attitudes about sex affected. Others find that their sex lives change in some way. You may find that your sexual interest declines because of the physical and emotional stresses of having cancer and going through treatment. These stresses may include:
- being worried about changes in your appearance
- coping with side effects of treatment, including fatigue and hormonal changes
- feeling anxious about your health, family or finances
Your partner’s concerns or fears also can affect your sexual relationship. Try to share your feelings with each other, and talk to your healthcare team if you need to. If talking to each other about sex, cancer, or both, is hard, a counsellor may be able to help you talk more openly.
You may find that intimacy changes during treatment. Hugging, touching, holding and cuddling may become more important, while sexual intercourse may become less important. Remember that there are many ways to express your sexuality. Together, you and your partner can decide what gives both of you pleasure.
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Last modified on:
26 November 2011
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