Diagnosing and treating cancer usually involves different medical procedures. Children react to tests and treatment in different ways depending on their age, developmental stage and personality. Some children may become very dependent and demanding. Others may become withdrawn or take their frustrations out on their parents or caregivers.
Unexpected stress is more difficult to cope with than expected stress. Children will be less anxious and better able to cope if they understand what will happen during a procedure and how it will help them. When children are less anxious, the procedure will go more smoothly and quickly.
Preparing children for tests or treatment
Telling children certain things about tests or treatment can help them be mentally and physically prepared. When possible, tell your child the following:
- why they need to have the test or treatment
- who will do the procedure
- where the test or treatment will be done
- what part of the body will be tested or treated
- how the test or treatment is done (including any equipment that will be used or any noises they may hear)
- what the test or procedure feels like (including a fair description of any pain involved)
- how long the test or treatment may last
Making information specific for children
Whenever possible, try to present information in a way that the child will understand. You may wish to try the following to help prepare children for tests or treatment.
- Explain each step in the procedure.
- If possible, take a tour of the room where the test or treatment will be done and have your child meet the people who will do the procedure.
- Encourage your child to ask questions and try to answer them as honestly and fully as possible.
The amount and depth of the information that you tell your child should be appropriate for their age and developmental stage. The following pages provide suggestions for preparing children for tests or treatment based on their age: